In the blink of an eye
By the time you’re reading this, our bags are mostly packed, we’ve said many goodbyes, and we’re charting our path towards the airport. Our time here has gone by in the blink of an eye. It’s a bit paradoxical, feeling like we’ve been here both for a single day and an entire lifetime. That’s the relativity of time, I guess. Time flies when you’re having fun.
We have had lots of fun, and we’ve done plenty of hard work as well. In our family we say that hard work is good work, and our trip has been good.
But it’s time to come home. Our flight boards at 11:35pm local time on Monday night, and we should be arriving back in Canada mid-afternoon on Tuesday. As we prepare for the journey ahead, here’s what this past week has held.
- On Saturday, Aiden woke up feeling unwell and with a rash that covered his abdomen. Rebecca got up early with him and took him to the local clinic that has been recommended to us by many missionaries. They took great care of him, both thorough and fast, and he was diagnosed with a bacterial infection. We started antibiotics that day and his condition almost immediately improved (after a very long nap). He has a dose or two left and then he should be completely past it.
- On Sunday we went to our last service at the church we’ve been attending and we began saying our goodbyes to some folks that we wouldn’t see again before we take flight. That began a week full of farewells.
- Later on that day, Rebecca got a text from Christine the midwife saying, “Mama in labour, can you come?” Me and the boys sent her off to the village, and there she found a labouring woman who was pregnant with twins! Rebecca delivered both babies safely—one boy and one girl—who happened to both be breech. It was a moment she’ll never forget.

- On Monday I spent my final day at Jinja Connection. We played rugby, football, read stories, and then ended our day with a feast of chicken, goat, and all the traditional Ugandan fixings. It was a treat for all of us. It’s my hope that the relationships I’ve made at Jinja Connection will continue into the future, blossoming into opportunities to work together again.


- On Tuesday Rebecca rejoined the folks from Mercy For Mamas to do another birth kit drop, this time in a slum village just on the outskirts of Jinja. It’s not far from where we are, but the complexion of the living conditions is altogether different than here in town. About 65 women from the village ventured to meet Rebecca and the team. Rebecca spent the morning teaching about breastfeeding, newborn care, and maternal heath. At the end of their time, the team distributed a birth kit to each woman, ensuring that they have everything that they need to give birth safely when they arrive to the hospital. Each kit costs about $10, and without this donation, many of these women would have shown up to the hospital without the supplies they need at the risk of being denied care. This is life-saving work.


- This Wednesday, July 22nd, was our 10th wedding anniversary. There’s some more time that has felt both like a moment and an eternity. To celebrate, we spent two nights at a river lodge called The Haven. We enjoyed good meals, spent some time on the river, saw many birds, and the boys swam in the pool—a lot. It was a serene way to celebrate the last decade and to seal our trip.
- Fun fact: The Haven is the scene of our first kiss. Rebecca took me there for a birthday brunch in 2012 to celebrate my nineteenth birthday.

- On Friday night we had a bit of a YWAM reunion. We shared dinner with our friends Barbara, Tamale, and Frank from our DTS back in 2012. It was a surreal experience, being back in this place with these people. Barbara owns a restaurant here in town, Tamale pastors a local church, and Frank is living in Wisconsin with his wife and two kids.
This weekend we’ll finish packing and say our final goodbyes. We’ve made a lot of fast friends in our short time here, and the farewells are getting harder each time. Hopefully they’re not goodbyes, but see you soons. On Sunday we’ll head to our departing city Entebbe, get a good night sleep, and spend a casual day on Monday before our late night flight.
Please pray for some miraculous measure of grace at Pearson upon our arrival. We’re hoping for an exception from the mandatory 21-day quarantine that’s currently required for Canadians returning from Uganda, Sudan, and the Congo. Uganda hasn’t had a positive Ebola case in many weeks.
Grace and peace.
Alexander, Rebecca, Asher & Aiden
To get in contact with us directly now or while we’re away, email alexander@lifeabundantniagara.com. We’ll be checking in regularly.











